You need to wipe your face and move on None of this is new. He told me of his divorce and the reasons they did. He decided that he wanted to separate and handle the situation with the kids and baby mama on his own because he did not want me to have to go through that. Texas is a no fault divorce state which essentially means that neither party necessarily has to prove the other did something "wrong" causing the divorce. There is a chance that it was an unwanted thing from your husbands side. She is going to have the child of course and I believe he is ambivalent. They are responsible for their deeds themselves. If they just act on their emotions, they can be considered emotionally immature and immoral people who put themselves way before others. After working daily for three weeks, he quarantines for an extra few days in the RV, then comes into the house for the remainder of a two-week break. She tried so hard to get in while my husband and I were having misunderstandings. While you are still legally married to another person, the court distinguishes between pre- and post-separation relationships. Shop our favorite Dog Supplies finds at great prices. So if your partner leaves you for another, you'll feel better if you call her names like home-wrecker, low-life, whore, tramp, slut, or skank. Please advise! I also feel like she would feel entitled because of it. @Both Sides you are deluded if you think for one second you can blame your wife! I dont think can take this. Dont listen to what others say. Then the mistress decided to contact me and tell she was pregnant with my husband's child. I had two abortions because the timing wasn't right. They had tattooed their names on each other a week after I confronted them. I love and care about my husband and want my family together. We broke up for a while and he said they were over. During our first encounter I didnt know he was a married man, but realized soon after when I saw a picture of him wearing his ring. She got pregnant and thought it would make my husband want her. Although you cant prevent any of that from happening, you can minimize the risks by taking preventive measures today. Last summer, he and I were surprised when we found out we were pregnant. I always say once a cheat, always a cheat and they both deserve each other. While I was pregnant with our second child he was having affair. He knew my kids, my parents, we talked every day, even took a mini vacay together. I got married a year ago and I found that my husband cheated on me the day after we got married. But my parents were together for 19 years and now my dad told us that he has had an affair and the mistress is pregnant. I don't like drama, but I don't like being disrespected either or threatened. He has custody of them since their mother was a drug addict. He is 36 and Im 21. She swore she was finished with him for a long time, then kept telling him she wanted to reconcile even after he said he was finished. Dating During Divorce | Can You Date Before Divorce Is Final? | DivorceNet His schedule was eventually changed so he could spend time with me and with our son. Caught him cheating 3 years ago and said it was harmless. Im freaking out because I still just cant believe after not wanting to believe it was happening, but I never thought he would chose her.