Im still baffled at times. I left. By Comfort Omovre. I decided to follow her from school one day, only to see her playing with a stranger. Much love. Any because people are judged so harshly when they cheat many have to live with guilt and negative feelings, and lost friends and have no outlet for that because they are the one who caused the pain, so they dont get to claim that they have any. I know what you might be thinking: Another person shouldnt complete you. I understand you for jus blurting out about your affair. I was really happy with this guy and meant it, when I told him, that I wanted to be with him for all the years to come. Heres my story and Ill keep it short. The man I vowed never to lie to. Im not proud of it, but it really is hard to just leave. "Girlfriend Left Me For a Rich Guy" - Is She a Gold Digger? They had expectations, which are not being met, and they hope that they can start anew and find a new relationship that does meet their needs.. Since that painful conversation, I knew there was no turning back. And now for the story (though it is more me, trying to get it out of the system): The poor man pleads, but the rich one answers roughly. When Maia was seven, she discovered through James that she was adopted. There was so much more I couldve been doing to myself happy instead. Do you share your guilt and grief with your new partner, or do you try to keep it to yourself? Ive never been able to tell MY story because any forum Ive come across is immediately blockaded with the cheaters are the scum of the earth types of people. How do you cope with anniversaries, important dates, your songs and places you went together? If you want a rich husband, you have to realize that you will never be the #1 priority in their life. Though i empathise with what youve been through, and the hard choices youve made, I want to ask you to examine why you felt the need to include this line: When I married I meant what I said in my vows, and never intended for it to be my starter marriage like some do. No one bothers to be open to listen to the REASONS. However, the guilt that you talk about is tremendous for me. And my heart is drawn to him like a magnet.