Dont jump when he lifts a finger to see you, and dont hurry answer him texts and calls either. The thing is he was my first andmaybe that is why he doesnt want to break up with me? I have one child from a previous relationship. Its so painful that I dont know where to start because he was my light in my world. These are all bad signs that your boyfriend doesnt love you anymore. Consider the following twenty signs: 1. When he learnt about the new guy he was hurt and then officially broke up with me as I cheated. I texted him. What had changed in few days? We began dating 7months ago. Yesterday we conclude not to see each other for days, just to see how he feels. This alarmed me. I felt that he was more distance, i thought it was just work related. Now, the current issues: The past TWO YEARS, he has barely come to spend time with me, he is cold, calculating, gets angry if I mention the issues in our relationship, he barely calls/texts me so Ive stopped initiating contact with him bc I was practically begging him to keep in touch. Due to him being busy He says everythings still good between us but intentionally wont talk to me even when hes not bust. He said he doesnt know when it changed only that it has. The truth is that in my opinion, all explanations ans trying to analyze things in the beginning and later are kind of excuses. everything!!! Talking about your experience can be helpful. I am with this guy who never expresses his feelings. By setting him free I mean no more neediness and expectations. Do guys who call for a break or whatever actually miss the other person? And finally, for ONCE he spoke from his heart (i hope). Sometimes, he may not be feeling the same way anymore. The first comes from Richard RohrsEverything Belongs: The Gift of Contemplative Prayer,which describes how to find spirituality in daily life. He says he likes me but does not love me(it is the farest he will go) and for most of time he is cold. I just dont know what to do. We couldnt really talk because he had gotten drunk for the first time ever in our relationship. I think that you shouldnt ignore it and wait for it to go away on its own, and decide whats right for you in this situation. It takes time. If you find yourself thinking, "My boyfriend doesn't love me anymore," it may be because it seems like he doesn't care about the relationship. I really do want him in my life. If your partner does not agree to something without heavy negotiation, then theres a chance they dont care enough about what you want or need from them. Ive spoke about it so many times with him and he just says what more do you want we are fine am no different am still the happy loving person Ive always been, but he cant see that he isnt the same person anymore and I dont no if he loves me either he always made sure I knew I was loved on the phone leaving little notes around the house just telling me to my face and now the last time he told me was December.